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2004/12/21

ニートについて。

ニートのポジショニング:

ニート<無業者<失業者<フリーター<パート<社員
って感じ?

ニートの属性は引きこもりとは違って、自分に自信がない。外に出たり人との接触を嫌がるらしい。
ハァー、なんか書いてたら早速疲れてきた。。。

・・・と、他人事のように書いてみるが、切込ブログを読んでいて引き込まれるものがあった。

> よく分からん。無能だといわれたくない、それはよしとしよう・・・ しかしだ。しかしだよ。そういった自分一人で未来を切り拓く力が弱かったとしても、自分のために超えられないかわりに、誰かのために、もしくは何かのために力を尽くすということはできないものなのか。

感動しました。説得力があります。TBの数もすごいけど、やっぱりみんな隊長の語りに引き込まれてるのかも。

最近感じることは、こういう能力があっても外にでていかない若者というのはその親が一番大きな影響を及ぼしているのではないかということ。
遺伝子なのかは別として、親の期待をかけられた子供とそうでない子供、そうでないというのは、親自身が自分自身の問題を抱えるのにいっぱいで子供を直すぐ見てあげられない場合。縦的な情関係がうまく結べない場合、その影響は大きいという。

そういうとではそういう家族のもとに生まれた自分は一体どうすればいいのかというジレンマに陥りそうですが、問題はその思考の切り替えかもしれない。つまり自分で自分に責任もつようにしないといけない気がする。
自分自身も最近やっと自分を卑下する思考性が、美徳ではないということに気づいた。

自分は被害者なのだという意識は、その人の周りの人に実は大きな影響を及ぼしていること。人の意識って恐い。目に見えないけど確実に身近な人を追い込む。
そういう人は問題を人のせいにしているのかもしれない。

例えその思考癖が社会的環境なり親から受け継がれたものであったとしても自分の代で変えないといけないと思ったのよ。


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